The Surrender Experiment

Singer advocates for a full surrender to life’s natural flow rather than trying to control the events of one’s life. He reflects on his personal journey, starting with his solitary meditation practice and evolving into running a major corporation—a transformation he never planned that happened as part of his “surrender experiment,” in which he chose to let go of his own desires and simply follow what life presented. The experiment involved relinquishing resistance and allowing life’s unfolding events to shape his path, leading to both external success and deeper spiritual growth.

Singer recounts a pivotal moment during the winter of 1970, when he becomes aware of the constant voice in his head while sitting on his couch with a friend, Ronnie. This subtle shift in awareness—realizing he could observe his thoughts and emotions—changes his life profoundly. He begins to notice his mind’s incessant chatter, which led him to yearn for inner silence. Seeking relief, Singer withdraws from social activities, spending time in the woods, trying to quiet the voice in his head. This experience becomes the foundation for his journey into surrendering control over his life.